Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Women

What I don't like about socializing is the gossip, drama and politics that usually comes with it. That is the prime reason why I almost decided to give up on humanity and become a recluse.
Historically women and I have not gotten along. For a dramatic emotional woman I could never deal with the drama and emotional complexities of other women. Either I gave them too much or too little. Either they made fun of me or became overly attached (or both). Either they were too needy or too manipulative (or both). Either they made me feel inferior or just wanted to prove their superiority. All in all they wanted me to pull my hair out and run for the hills (or the ocean, whichever was closer). Of course I am generalizing because then there were a few of those who were cool (might I add, like me) and I felt so at ease with them that they made the torture of finding them almost worthwhile. But I still am of the opinion that guys make so much better friends than girls (if only the hormones wouldn't come into play!!). Not because they are not humans but because they are emotionally lazy(to manipulate), non-possessive and extremely logical and practical. They basically think and want to prove that they are super cool and that makes them fun to be with.
I recently joined a group of girls to hang out with. And soon after one of the girls (girlA) started bitching about some other girl (girl B, who I have never met), saying that the girl B bitches about her all the time. Hellooo???? You are doing the same thing!!! Another girl (girl C) told me its because of her that the two girls started arguing because girl A wanted to prove to girl B that girl C was her better friend because girl B had a party and invited girl A only if girl C wouldn't come, but girl A said she wouldn't come if girl C wasn't invited which forced girl B to invite girl C but resented her for not not sending her RSVP till the day before the party. Meantime girl B (who I still haven't met) send me msg on facebook about how much she wants to meet me which girl A read and started warning me about what a bitch girl B is while girl C is like I am partial and have told girl A not to fight with girl B over me but then girl C said I don't like girl B only because she bitched about her MIL and called her a bitch. Also girl A started texting me love u miss and you awesome after meeting me twice. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa??????????????????
Also, girl C who likes me as well wants to hang out with me only if I keep it a secret from Girl A and B because they are so jealous and possessive. Furthermore girl D (hehehe) who desperately wants to be part of our group (apparently I'm in a group) and whom I really liked, is snubbed by girls A, B and C because she is not, hear this, "cool enough".
ARE YOU KIDDING ME WITH THIS??????????????????????????????
And the scariest part is that these women are in their 30s, married with kids. Like, seriously??
Although this is a bit annoying, I no longer want to run for the hills or pull my hair and even though this is very high school, I am all grown up and can deal with the whole lot very diplomatically. Besides you cant really put a price on good entertainment and of course I really get along with their husbands :)

4 comments:

littlemice said...

So if B>D and A+BD=C, who came first chkn or egg.

APOO said...

I am not going to understand this A-B-C-D thingy unless you have a flowchart and stepwise algorithm on the interaction dynamics.

the free spirit said...

lol!!!
@ LM: you are still asking that question??
@Apoo: Well the algorithm is quite complex and when it was run the system crashed and caught fire hehehe.

Khumar Raza said...

.... i think ... Girl E .. (which is u) should ... n i REALLY mean it ... should get them all in one place ... a surprise party thing ... n tell them all what they all think abt eachother!! .. n then grab a popcorn .. n enjoy the show!!